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    Sep 20, 2006

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    Marcus

    Takes a lot of tact and intelligence to destroy a person's mirage, as you put it, without crushing their spirit. Sounds like a nice guy. Any follow up to how your teaching aid job went?

    Ed Batista

    (Wow, this takes me back. What led you to this post, Marcus?)

    David is definitely a man of intelligence, but I wouldn't describe him as tactful. I'd say that his directness--and sometimes intentional tactlessness--has helped me to see how tact can actually prevent me from having the desired effect when interacting with others. Tact blunts our rough edges, and while sometimes those edges do need smoothing out, they can also cut through a lot of bullshit.

    So while I'd describe myself as tactful, I don't think that's always served me well.

    The follow-up is really in the About Me and What I Do pages on this site. When I started TA'ing with David, I was just a few months removed from "repotting" myself by leaving organizational management and launching an executive coaching practice. At the beginning of 2007, I began working as a Leadership Coach at Stanford, and 3 years later, while I still feel that I have much to learn as a coach, I also believe that I'm making a meaningful contribution to the lives of my clients and students. I've found my calling, and that's very rewarding.

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